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Enough is a true story about what happens when the foundation of your identity is shaken, and the life you thought you understood begins to fall apart.

In 2005, while traveling to the Philippines for a family wedding, Lloiden had a vivid and unsettling dream about a man whose face looked like hers — a man she somehow knew was her father. The very next day, a relative shared a rumor that would change everything: the man Lloiden believed was her father might not be.

That moment opened a door she didn’t know existed — not only into her past, but into her sense of self.

What followed was not simply a search for a man, but a search for truth, belonging, and inner alignment. Lloiden’s journey brought her to a remote island in the Philippines, to a charming home in North Carolina, and finally to Stockholm, Sweden — each place revealing another layer of the story, and another layer of herself.

Along the way, she confronts family secrets, unspoken grief, loyalty, fear, and the deep human longing to know where we come from and where we belong.

Enough is a memoir about questioning what we are told, listening to what we know inside, and having the courage to stay with ourselves even when what we know inside is not affirmed by the world. It is a story about the complex relationship between mothers and daughters, about the stories we inherit and the truths we choose, and about the courage it takes to choose yourself.